To make a monkey out of me

Li Hello and welcome to The English We Speak. I’m Li…

Rob
And hello, I’m Rob

Li
Sorry, I didn’t hear that.

Rob
If I just take this head off… can you hear me better now? Hello!

Li
That’s better but why are you wearing a life-size monkey costume Rob?

Rob
Well my friend said I should wear it to his son’s birthday party this morning - his son loves monkeys and it would make his birthday really special if he saw one!

Li
Well, that’s very kind of you Rob - and how did the party go?

Rob
Well that’s the problem. As you can see, I dressed up like a monkey, travelled across London on the bus and there was no party!

Li
Ha ha - no party! It looks like your friend has been ‘making a monkey out of you’!

Rob
Making a monkey out of me? Yes, that’s a very good phrase. You mean he’s trying to make me look foolish or to humiliate me.

Li
He’s certainly done that! Let’s hear some examples of the phrase in action…

Examples
Mary made a monkey out me by telling to me to ask her best friend out on a date - she said no!

My boyfriend’s always making a monkey out of himself by getting drunk at parties.

Sid made a monkey out of Paul by telling him to wear a suit to the party - everyone else was wearing jeans!

Li
So ‘making a monkey out of someone’ is not a nice thing to do. You can also say ‘making a fool out of someone’. So Rob, you’re angry because he’s made a fool out of you?

Rob
Yes that’s right! This phrase doesn’t just apply to people who dress up like monkeys. It can apply to any situation where somewhere has been made to look foolish or ridiculous - like me. But Li, this phrase compares someone to a monkey because monkeys look like they are fooling around. Isn’t that right?

Li
No. In the Chinese culture, a monkey is seen as a clever animal and is often compared to a clever person.

Rob
Oh really? Well, in that case I might wear this monkey costume for a little bit longer. How does it make me look? Clever, smart?

Li
Quite smart and quite handsome too.

Rob
Oh thank you very much!

Li
Bye.

Rob
Bye.