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Verbal Bullying – Interactive Lesson B

Hello this is AJ, and welcome to our interactive essay part B, our interactive lesson part B. In part B I will go through the essay again by Vox Day. This time I will ask questions. When I ask a question shout out the answer. You can answer with just one or two words that’s fine.

All right let’s begin.

The basic idea is that if you can make the other person feel small or angry, you are winning at verbal bullying rhetoric.

Do you want to make the other person feel big?

No, not big. You don’t want to make the other person feel big.

How do you want to make the other person feel?

Small. You want the other person, the bully, to feel small.

Do you want the bully to feel big or small?

Small, you want the bully to feel small.

If you make the bully feel small, are you winning at bullying rhetoric?

Yes. If you make them feel small you are winning at bullying rhetoric.

This is why verbal bullies are constantly accusing other people of being mad or upset. It’s just another way of them claiming to be winning the conversation. If you can make the other person submit…

Do you want the other person to win or submit?

You want them to submit. You want the other person to submit. You want them to surrender.

So do you want them to submit?

Yes! You want the bully to submit, to surrender or to run away or to fall silent, to become silent.

Then you have won the conversation, and you are higher in the verbal bully’s hierarchy. So it doesn’t matter what you actually say…

Does it matter which words you use?

No, not really. What you say, the information is not very important.

What is important, the information or the emotion?

The emotion. With bullies the emotion is important, not the information. In fact, resorting to straight up name calling can be very effective.

Is name calling, insulting, is that your first choice?

No, it’s not your first choice in life, it’s not what you want to do.

But, do you need to resort to name calling sometimes?

Yes, unfortunately, sometimes you need to resort to, you need to choose something you don’t want, you need to resort to straight up name calling, direct name calling, direct insults.

Should the insults be soft or ridiculous?

Ridiculous, they should be ridiculous, they should be super exaggerated, super extreme, even crazy and laughable.

So do you want ridiculous insults or accurate insults?

Ridiculous. Ridiculous insults are often the best with bullies.

So if they launch, if they start insults such as, you’re a sexist, you’re a racist, you’re a homophobic, you’re a Nazi, should you blink, should you hesitate?

No, don’t blink, don’t blink, don’t hesitate. If you are insulted for no reason. If you’re attacked for no reason, don’t blink.

Should you hesitate or should you attack back immediately?

You should attack back immediately, don’t blink, don’t hesitate.

Attack back immediately with ridiculous insults such as racist, child molester, pedophile, monster, then watch them run.

What is a pedophile?

You’ll see this in the news sometimes this word pedophile. A pedophile is an adult who wants to have sex with children. Yuck, really terrible people, horrible people. An adult who tries to have sex with children is a pedophile.

Are pedophiles nice people?

No, pedophiles are horrible people.

If you’re of a more delicate constitution, you can use softer insults.

What kind of constitution?

A more delicate constitution. Delicate means soft or fragile. Constitution is what you’re made of, it’s like your character, your personality, your character. So if you have a softer personality and are not willing to be so mean, you can try softer insults such as creepy and stalker on the men or psycho or ugly on women.

Should you insult a bully if you’re attacked unprovoked?

Yes you should! You should insult them back, especially if you’re attacked unprovoked.

Unprovoked means without reason. Often bullies attack you for no reason. You’re being nice, you don’t say anything bad and they still attack you. It’s an unprovoked attack, an attack for no reason. In my experience usually the bullies attack you unprovoked, you’re not doing anything and they suddenly start calling you names, accusing you of being a racist or stupid or whatever. It’s an unprovoked attack, without reason.

So you should insult them back and this will be effective. You know your rhetoric is effective when they block you online or in person if their eyes widen with shock and their jaw what closes or drops?

If their jaw drops in shock, right, their mouth opens. Their lower mouth, their jaw drops that means they’re shocked. That’s a good sign if you can shock them, if their jaw drops.

You will know you have mastered the art of rhetoric if you can make a verbal bully retreat in tears.

Do you want them to run away while crying?

Yes, you want them to run away while crying. You want them to retreat in tears.

Do you do this to nice people, to normal people?

No, of course not, never do this to a nice person. Don’t do this in a normal argument with a good person. You only do this with verbal bullies.

So who do you want to retreat in tears a normal person or a verbal bully?

A bully, you want the bully to retreat in tears, not a normal person.

Or you want to cause a room full of people to gasp and then burst out laughing at the bully.

Burst out means suddenly laugh. To burst out laughing, suddenly start laughing.

Do you want them to gasp in surprise?

Yes. You want observers, you want witnesses to gasp. You want to shock the witnesses too. Have them gasp in disbelief, in surprise.

You must keep in mind, you must remember, keep in mind, remember the actual information content is irrelevant. Information content is irrelevant.

Is the information important or irrelevant? It’s irrelevant it’s not important. It doesn’t matter if your insults are true or not. In fact, it’s better if they’re not true. It doesn’t matter if you’re using logic or not, you don’t want logic, it’s only emotion.

The information content, the logic is irrelevant, it’s unimportant when you’re dealing with bullies. Bullies communicate in competitive emotion.

If you’re not doing the same you’re not communicating with them and you’re playing what, you’re just playing punching what?

You’re playing punching bag. You’re being a punching bag for them. It means you’re just letting them attack you.

If you don’t use strong emotion you’re doing what, playing what?

Punching bag, you’re playing punching bag for their verbal attacks, their verbal strikes.

This probably doesn’t make sense, but that’s because you are a normal, what kind of person, normal and sane. You’re a normal sane person.

Are you crazy or are you sane?

You’re sane. You’re not crazy.

Are you insane, which means crazy or sane?

You are sane. You are normal and sane, you’re not insane. Insane means crazy, sane means normal.

And you think, as well as feel, you don’t only feel. Don’t try to work through the logic.

Should you try to understand the logic?

No, no, you should not try to work through the logic.

Should you try to work through the logic or not try to work through the logic?

Not try, don’t try to work through the logic. Don’t try to understand the logic, just try it, it works. You’ll be surprised to find how effective this can be.

Okay, that is the end of the interactive B lesson. I will see you next in the commentary.